How to Successfully Propose

How to Propose Successfully

How to Propose Successfully

1 - How to propose, according to Dr. Romance: 1. Keep it simple: Make your proposal plans simple. The more intricate the proposal strategy, the greater the likelihood that something will go wrong. Make it a private time for the two of you. You may reserve the grandiose announcement for the engagement. If you were incorrect about your partner's willingness, you will be unhappy, but you will avoid public embarrassment.

2. Discuss it in broad terms beforehand: Avoid surprising a spouse who may be unable to decide. Rather than that, inquire many weeks in advance, such as "How do you feel about marriage?" "Would you want children if we ever married?" and "Do you believe we might make a marriage work someday?" Positive responses to these questions give you permission to inquire.

3. Make a heartfelt inquiry. Tell a brief tale about how you came to the realization that you want to spend your life with your spouse and then conclude with "So, would you marry me?"

4. While it is customary to have an engagement ring, you should not pick it solely on your own—your spouse may have something else in mind. Prior to the proposal, during the "preparation" stage, stop by jewelry shops while in the mall and inquire, "Which engagement ring do you like?" This manner, you can ascertain her preferences. However, regardless of what the jewelry salesman claims about many months' wages, avoid going overboard on the expenditure. Consult a trusted friend or family member if you're unsure about your financial situation. It's also OK to choose and buy the ring jointly, but keep the actual proposal a surprise.

5. For the proposal itself, choose a location that has significance for you as a couple. If you enjoyed your visit to the zoo, consider taking your meant there to propose. If both of you like rock climbing, climb your favorite rock and propose at the top. This is the location to utilize if you have a favorite restaurant or even a bowling facility. The neighborhood park where you exercise or regularly meet for a chat is fantastic. It is more essential for the location to be significant, memorable, and reasonably private than it is for it to be ornate or costly.

6. If all goes according to plan, you should be rewarded with a "yes" and a huge kiss. Once that occurs, you may treat her to a lovely supper or accompany her to inform her parents.

2020 Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today, Tina B. Tessina

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., has been a registered psychotherapist in the state of California since 1978. She has over 40 years of experience treating people and couples and is the author of 15 books in 17 languages, including Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today. It All Comes Down to You: How to Grow Up and Get Out of Disfunction; The Ten Most Wise Choices a Woman Can Make After Forty; How to Celebrate Your Differences in Love, The Real 13th Step, How to Be Happy Partners: Making it Work Together, and How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free.


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